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她哈佛一毕业就成外交官,而今没工作、没护照、没户籍、没姓氏…?!

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TOKYO, JAPAN - JUNE 9:  Masako Owada, fiancee of Crown Prince Naruhito, proceeds to the inner sanctum of the Imperial Palace wearing full court dress to be married 09 June 1993. The dress, which weighs 14 kilos (31 pounds), is made of 12 layers of silk. The design dates from the Heian era, 794 to 1185.  (Photo credit should read IMPERIAL HOUSEHOLD/AFP/Getty Images) © getty TOKYO, JAPAN - JUNE 9: Masako Owada, fiancee of Crown Prince Naruhito, proceeds to the inner sanctum of the Imperial Palace wearing full court dress to be married 09 June 1993. The dress, which weighs 14 kilos (31 pounds), is made of 12 layers of silk. The design dates from the Heian era, 794 to 1185. (Photo credit should read IMPERIAL HOUSEHOLD/AFP/Getty Images)

日本令和时代来临,新天皇与皇后现身致意,这才让人想起了这位令人唏嘘的“日本戴安娜”。

TOKYO, JAPAN:  (FILES) This file photo dated 09 June 1993 shows Japanese Crown Prince Naruhito (L) and Crown Princess Masako (R) waving to people during the parade after their wedding ceremony in Tokyo.  Japan's Crown Princess Masako, who on 30 July 2004 was diagnosed as suffering from a psychological disorder brought on by stress, used to be an outgoing career diplomat when she married into the world's oldest monachy in 1993, has since slowly faded from public view, last appearing at an official function in December, 2003.     AFP PHOTO/JIJI PRESS/FILES  (Photo credit should read AFP/AFP/Getty Images) © getty TOKYO, JAPAN: (FILES) This file photo dated 09 June 1993 shows Japanese Crown Prince Naruhito (L) and Crown Princess Masako (R) waving to people during the parade after their wedding ceremony in Tokyo. Japan's Crown Princess Masako, who on 30 July 2004 was diagnosed as suffering from a psychological disorder brought on by stress, used to be an outgoing career diplomat when she married into the world's oldest monachy in 1993, has since slowly faded from public view, last appearing at an official function in December, 2003. AFP PHOTO/JIJI PRESS/FILES (Photo credit should read AFP/AFP/Getty Images)

当年,年仅27岁的她被视为外务省最又潜力的女外交官,而在加入皇室后,唯一被关心的就是生孩子,特别是男孩子。巨大的落差让她一度患上了抑郁症,靠大量服用抗抑郁药品度日。今天,多年的媳妇熬成婆,亮黄色又回到了她身上。

JAPAN - JANUARY 19:  Announcement About The Engagement Of Prince Naruhito And Owada In Tokyo, Japan On January 19, 1993 - Masako Owada arrives at Palace with parents.  (Photo by Kurita KAKU/Gamma-Rapho via Getty Images) © getty JAPAN - JANUARY 19: Announcement About The Engagement Of Prince Naruhito And Owada In Tokyo, Japan On January 19, 1993 - Masako Owada arrives at Palace with parents. (Photo by Kurita KAKU/Gamma-Rapho via Getty Images)

雅子皇后原名叫小和田雅子,众人皆知她是为平民皇后,但所谓平民只不过没有皇室血统而已,父亲家祖辈都是党政要员,母亲是企业家江头丰的女儿优美子,家底丰厚。1963年出生的小雅子,是家中长姐,两年后,又有了两个礼子和节子,几个女儿和妈妈的名字拼起来为“优雅礼节”,雅子的一生都践行着这四个字,但为之束缚。

Japan's Crown Prince Naruhito, left, and Crown Princess Masako, right, read the information on the national youth book report competition at their residence Togu Palace in Tokyo, Japan in this handout picture taken on February 17, 2019 and provided by the Imperial Household Agency of Japan. Imperial Household Agency of Japan/Handout via Reuters ATTENTION EDITORS - THIS PICTURE WAS PROVIDED BY A THIRD PARTY. © getty Japan's Crown Prince Naruhito, left, and Crown Princess Masako, right, read the information on the national youth book report competition at their residence Togu Palace in Tokyo, Japan in this handout picture taken on February 17, 2019 and provided by the Imperial Household Agency of Japan. Imperial Household Agency of Japan/Handout via Reuters ATTENTION EDITORS - THIS PICTURE WAS PROVIDED BY A THIRD PARTY.

雅子在性格上全无官二代的娇气,据说小时候爬树摔伤后,雅子不仅忍住不哭,还跟大人说不要紧。巧合的是,这种坚强的性格与她未来的丈夫很像,侍从滨尾实说过,“皇太子学骑自行车的时候,跌下来摔伤了,不会哭诉,而是自己抱着膝盖忍耐疼痛。”

URAYASU, JAPAN:  Japanese Crown Princess Masako (L) and her daughter Princess Aiko are welcomed by Disney charactors upon arrival at Tokyo DisneySea in Urayasu, suburban of Tokyo, 13 March 2006.  Four-year-old Japanese Princess Aiko, the only child of the crown prince, toured Tokyo Disneyland, with her parents hoping to give her some trappings of a normal childhood.  AFP PHOTO/Kazuhiro NOGI/POOL  (Photo credit should read KAZUHIRO NOGI/AFP/Getty Images) © getty URAYASU, JAPAN: Japanese Crown Princess Masako (L) and her daughter Princess Aiko are welcomed by Disney charactors upon arrival at Tokyo DisneySea in Urayasu, suburban of Tokyo, 13 March 2006. Four-year-old Japanese Princess Aiko, the only child of the crown prince, toured Tokyo Disneyland, with her parents hoping to give her some trappings of a normal childhood. AFP PHOTO/Kazuhiro NOGI/POOL (Photo credit should read KAZUHIRO NOGI/AFP/Getty Images)

从小跟着外交官父亲满世界跑,在莫斯科上的幼儿园,在东京、纽约两地来回转学中上完了小学,在东京和波士顿两地奔波中读完了中学,不断搬家的童年不但没有给她留下对分别的阴影,反而强化了她对环境的适应能力,并且在沉浸式的语言环境使她精通英式英语、美式英语、法语、俄语和德语。

连雅子的中学老师莉莲·卡茨都如此评价她“有与生俱来的高贵和自信,这对于一个不满16岁的女孩来说,有些不同寻常”。

高中后她以优异的成绩考取哈佛大学,从图上可以看出,四年中哈佛不仅给了她经济学的知识,还给了她过多的热量。但是,人家一回国又轻轻松松的瘦了下来。

22岁本科毕业后,雅子回到东京大学读法律课程,同时自考报录比40:1的外交官资格证,一次通过后,23岁进外务省北美局,开始了外交生涯,就在那年10月,雅子遇到了那个改变她人生轨迹的男人。

1986年,日本皇宫举办了一场欢迎西班牙公主的音乐会,23岁的外交官应邀参加,26岁的准皇太子遇到了那个意气风发的女孩。在宴会上两人并没有过多交流,故事的开头只是她向他鞠躬行礼,他祝贺她进入外务省任职。但之后德仁向好友坦白:“我一见到她就好像被电到一样。”

之后,德仁对雅子展开了长达7年的追求,比如“以公谋私”在各种外交场合巧遇雅子;比如除夕前夜顶住“没有先例”的压力邀请雅子集其一家“平民”到皇宫聚会等等。与此同时,日本皇室保姆“宫内厅”也没闲着,提出三大原因,反对雅子成为皇太子妃。

年轻气盛的德仁对宫内厅提出的反对意见完全是一笑了之,什么身高比自己高、什么太有思想不够传统通通都是德仁眼中的优点。唯一一条稍微算得上家族污点的就是,雅子的外祖父曾牵涉“水俣病事件”,但德仁对此也是视而不见,反而频繁约见雅子,将她介绍给朋友,更绝的是——直接求婚。

但一心要成为外交官的雅子婉拒了他。1988年,25岁明明已经当上外交官的雅子,突然远赴牛津读(bi)书(nan)。雅子的拒绝没能让这位痴情的皇太子死心,虽然在这年中也象征性的参加宫内厅为自己安排的相亲,但都是无疾而终。

1993年在天皇出马说服雅子父亲、宫内厅施压等种种因素下,两次求婚被拒绝、日本近代史上最老“王老五”德仁终于等来了雅子说出自己想听到的答案,那天他说出承诺“此生我会尽自己所有力量,去保护你度过一切困难。”

1993年6月9日,当小和田雅子和日本德仁皇太子喜结良缘时,日本的女权主义者为之欢呼:“一名职业妇女将成为未来的皇后。”初入皇宫的雅子还是幸福的,有一个爱她的丈夫和包容她的婆婆,同样出身平民的美智子,能够理解她初入皇室的不适应。

但皇宫的繁文缛节终究还是将这个爱笑的姑娘改变了。一次联合记者会上,雅子说起了她的计划与抱负,发言时间比德仁皇太子多出28秒。按照皇室的礼俗规定,她发言的长度只能是丈夫的一半。这场记者会成了雅子在公开场合发表谈话的最后一次,宫内厅下了禁口令。

雅子褪去职业女装换上王妃宫服,在婚后长达8年的时间里,她几乎不在公共场合发表任何讲话,即使偶尔开口,也是完全按照皇室礼宾官员起草的讲稿照本宣科。走路时永远要落后皇太子三步,日本皇室传统:这是夫妇之间应当保持的距离。

皇室和国民唯一在乎的只有雅子的肚子,宫内厅不让她外出,希望强制增加她和皇太子接触的时间来让她怀孕。1999年,雅子怀孕的消息令举国沸腾,但最后不幸流产,主治医师说有可能是因过度报道带来的心理压力导致流产。直到38岁时,雅子以高龄产妇的身份生下爱子公主。但各方还是将压力放在她身上,因为皇室不能没有男性继承人。

2004年德仁皇太子出发参加丹麦王储婚礼前,例行记者会上,有人询问为何雅子妃为何再次取消行程,一向沉稳的德仁突然放下手中的讲稿,愤怒地脱稿演说,他讲到有人对太子妃的经历和人格进行了否定,导致她病倒,无法工作。日本官方这才公开承认雅子存在“适应障碍”,患上了自闭症无法履行皇室义务。

德仁为了不让雅子有压力,提出考虑允许女性皇族拥有继承权!时任首相的小泉纯一郎很会做人,开始策动修改《皇室典范》。这件事随着二皇子(图中高个男子)的纪子王妃在2006年生下皇孙悠仁不了了之。可能也因弟媳生了儿子,雅子的精神压力减轻,她整个人变的开朗起来,开始公开参加活动。

日前,本进入了令和时代,雅子妃也终于成为雅子皇后,这只笼中鸟终归是在皇宫里蹉跎了时光,不论如何祝愿雅子,在令和时代过得更好吧。

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